Resist the Urge to Provide Solutions

Part 2: Control

“The problem with empowerment is that it assumes the leader has the power and graciously gives it away. What I’m talking about is fundamentally different. It’s about recognizing that the power was always there, in the people, and the leader’s job is to release it.” – L. David Marquet

The Leader’s Hardest Battle

Pushing authority down the chain of command sounds simple in theory. In practice, it requires leaders to fight against their deepest instincts. Marquet discovered that the most difficult part of the leader-leader transformation was not convincing the crew to step up. It was convincing himself to step back.

Every time a problem arose, Marquet’s instinct was to solve it. He knew the answer, or at least he thought he did. He could see the solution clearly. It would be faster, easier, and less risky to just tell people what to do. And every time he gave in to that urge, he reinforced the very culture he was trying to change.

The Paradox of Helpful Leaders

There is a cruel paradox at the heart of traditional leadership: the more competent and helpful the leader, the more dependent and passive the team becomes. When leaders consistently provide solutions:

The most dangerous leaders are not the incompetent ones. They are the brilliant, well-intentioned ones who solve every problem and thereby prevent anyone else from learning to solve problems.

Giving Control vs. Empowerment

Marquet draws a critical distinction between empowerment and what he actually did on the Santa Fe. Empowerment, as commonly practiced, is a leader-follower concept. The leader has power and generously delegates some of it to subordinates, who exercise it at the leader’s pleasure and can have it revoked at any time.

What Marquet advocated is structurally different. It is not empowerment. It is control. The people doing the work have inherent authority over their work. The leader’s job is not to give them power but to stop taking it away.

Empowerment vs. Control

Empowerment (Leader-Follower) Control (Leader-Leader)
Leader grants authority Authority is inherent in the role
Can be revoked at any time Structurally embedded
Feels like a gift Feels like a right
Leader retains ultimate decision-making Decision-making is distributed
Requires the leader’s continued good will Operates independently of individual leaders
Temporary program Permanent structure

“Don’t empower your people. Give them control. There’s a huge difference.” – L. David Marquet

Mechanisms for Resisting the Urge

Marquet did not rely on willpower alone to resist his urge to provide solutions. He built specific mechanisms into the daily operation of the submarine that made it structurally difficult for him to revert to old habits.

Mechanism 1: Short, Early Conversations

Instead of waiting for problems to escalate and then swooping in with a solution, Marquet instituted brief, frequent check-ins where officers would share their thinking early. These were not status updates or permission requests. They were thinking-out-loud sessions where the officer would share their analysis and intended course of action, and Marquet would ask probing questions rather than providing answers.

The key questions Marquet learned to ask:

Mechanism 2: Thinking Out Loud

Marquet encouraged everyone on the submarine to verbalize their thinking process before taking action. This served two purposes: it gave others the opportunity to catch errors, and it forced the person to organize their thoughts clearly. On a submarine, this practice could literally save lives.

A helmsman might say: “I am checking the depth gauge. We are at 400 feet. Our ordered depth is 200 feet. I am going to bring the ship up at a two-degree up angle.” Anyone hearing this who noticed an error could speak up before action was taken.

Mechanism 3: Deliberate Action

This mechanism required every crew member to pause briefly before taking any action, gesture toward what they were about to do, and state their intent. It was a physical practice, not just a verbal one. The pause created a moment of reflection that caught errors before they happened.

This was not about slowing things down. It was about being intentional. Paradoxically, deliberate action often increased speed because it reduced the time spent fixing mistakes.

The Hardest Moments

The real test of Marquet’s commitment to resisting the urge came during high-pressure situations. When the submarine was in a drill or a real operational scenario, the temptation to take control was overwhelming. Every instinct screamed: “Just tell them what to do!”

Under Pressure

During one particularly intense tactical exercise, Marquet watched as his officer of the deck struggled with a complex decision. The clock was ticking. The pressure was enormous. Marquet knew exactly what order to give. Every fiber of his being wanted to say it.

Instead, he asked: “What do you intend to do?”

The officer paused, thought, and then laid out a plan that was different from what Marquet would have ordered, but was sound and well-reasoned. It worked. And more importantly, the officer learned something that day that he could never have learned if Marquet had provided the answer: he learned that he was capable of making good decisions under pressure.

Had Marquet intervened, the outcome might have been slightly better in that moment. But the officer would have learned that he could not be trusted to make decisions when it mattered. That lesson would have been far more costly in the long run.

The Multiplier Effect

When leaders stop providing solutions, something counterintuitive happens: the organization’s total problem-solving capacity increases dramatically. Instead of one brain (the leader’s) working on problems, every brain in the organization is engaged.

One Brain vs. Many

On a submarine with 135 crew members:

This is not a small difference. It is an exponential improvement. And it explains why the Santa Fe’s performance improved so dramatically: Marquet did not become a better leader in the traditional sense. He unlocked the leadership capacity that had always existed in his crew but had been suppressed by the system.

Practice: The 24-Hour Challenge

For the next 24 hours, try this experiment:

  1. Every time someone asks you for a solution, respond with a question: “What do you think we should do?”
  2. Keep a tally of how many times you are tempted to provide an answer. Notice how strong the urge is.
  3. When someone proposes a solution, say “Very well” instead of modifying their proposal (unless there is a genuine safety or quality concern).
  4. At the end of 24 hours, reflect: Were the decisions others made worse than yours would have been? Often, they are just as good or better, because the person closest to the problem has information the leader does not.

Reflection

What would happen in your organization if you simply stopped providing solutions for one week? Would things fall apart, or would people rise to fill the vacuum? The answer to that question tells you everything about whether you are leading leaders or leading followers.

Key Takeaways

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