âEarly in your career, access is worth more than money. A conversation with the right person can change your trajectory more than a âč50,000 brand deal.â
â Varun Mayya
The Two Currencies
As a creator, you operate with two currencies: access and money. Access means relationships, opportunities, doors that open, people who take your calls. Money is⊠money.
The mistake many creators make is optimizing for money too early, when access would provide far more long-term value.
The Access vs Money Matrix
| Stage |
Priority |
Why |
| 0-10K followers |
Access (100%) |
Build relationships, learn from others, get opportunities |
| 10K-100K |
Access (70%) / Money (30%) |
Selective monetization, continue building network |
| 100K-1M |
Access (50%) / Money (50%) |
Sustainable income while maintaining relationships |
| 1M+ |
Strategy-dependent |
You have leverage to optimize for either |
What Access Provides
- Collaborations: Partnering with established creators exposes you to their audience
- Learning: Behind-the-scenes knowledge that isnât in any course
- Opportunities: Speaking gigs, podcast appearances, business partnerships
- Mentorship: Guidance from people whoâve been where you are
- Deal flow: Better brand deals come through relationships, not cold emails
Common Mistake: Monetizing Too Early
Taking every small brand deal when you have a small audience often trades long-term reputation for short-term cash. Viewers can tell when content is primarily motivated by sponsorship, and it erodes trust that takes years to build back.
How to Build Access
Access isnât given â itâs earned through value creation:
- Be genuinely useful: Help people without expecting immediate return
- Create quality content: Your work is your calling card
- Show up consistently: Be a regular presence in communities
- Reach out thoughtfully: Personalized, specific requests beat generic pitches
- Follow through: Reliability builds reputation faster than talent
When to Flip the Ratio
Eventually, you need to monetize. Signs itâs time to shift more toward money:
- Youâre burning out because you canât sustain the pace unpaid
- You have enough audience that brands approach you (not the reverse)
- Youâve built genuine relationships that wonât be damaged by commercial activity
- You can be selective about partnerships that align with your values
Pro Tip
Keep a ârelationship CRMâ â a simple spreadsheet of people youâve met, what you talked about, and how you might help them. The creators who build empires are almost always exceptional at maintaining relationships.
Action Steps
- Identify 10 creators youâd love to know â what value could you offer them?
- Audit your current activity: How much is optimizing for money vs. access?
- For the next 3 months, prioritize one over the other intentionally
- Track relationship-building activities like you track views
Key Takeaways
- Early in your journey, access typically provides more long-term value than money
- Relationships open doors that cold outreach canât
- Monetizing too early can damage trust and limit growth
- Build access by creating genuine value for others
- Shift the ratio as your leverage increases